Let’s be honest – nothing is more gratifying than reflecting back on all the scary goals that we actually crushed this past year. And come January, we all love having the chance for a fresh start with BIG goals! I want you to think of goals as the compasses of our life/businesses! Without them, we have no idea in which direction we’re going and it’s really easy to get lost.
‘NEVER GIVE UP’ is a great attitude to have towards goals, but it’s not exactly specific. Now, a lot of people think that not hitting every goal we set for ourselves means we’ve failed. Reality is that there will be goals we set for ourselves that, as we push towards the goal, turn out not to be the right fit, AND THAT’S OKAY! We’re in a constant state of change! It’s okay if our priorities shift and a goal we were working towards just doesn’t make sense for us anymore. It’s okay to let those goals go – it’s not a sign of failure!
I’m not saying you should give up when things are hard, because there’s a difference between letting go of a goal because it’s no longer in alignment with what we want and letting go of a goal because it’s too hard. Making small adjustments as we go along is often necessary because we as humans and our environment change constantly! WE NEED TO LEARN TO ADAPT!
So, today I want to tell you that whatever your goal is for 2022 – GO FOR IT NO MATTER WHAT! Try your absolute BEST, but if things don’t work out, it’s NOT the end of the world. Your future is created by what you do today, and girls if you want something you never had, you have to do something you’ve never done! Big goals are not easy to achieve and you only find them after the hardest climb.
YOU ARE CAPABLE OF MORE THAN YOU KNOW, and I want to remind you that success is NOT about validating from others. It’s about acceptance of YOURSELF! You freaking got this, Babe! Everything you need to make your dreams come true, is already inside you. Put on your crown, find your fire and OWN YOUR JOURNEY! Be your own damn BOSS BABE!
Much love, Lei x